I'm 34 and I've never been married so you can imagine I've experienced my fair share of heartbreak and disappointment when it comes to relationships. A few years ago I pretty much made peace with the fact that I was happy with who I was and being single, even if it meant dying alone. That didn't stop me from dating though! I'd been on OkCupid off and on for years and had nearly given up when I got a message from a guy who was handsome, smart and referenced Nick Cave (one of my favorite musicians) on his profile. I had to meet him! We instantly connected on our first date and have been together since. I fall in love with him more and more every day. Meeting Hans has given me the confidence (not to mention the free time now that I'm not dating anymore) to pursue my dream of starting a photography business. So when you come to me with your heart all aflutter, engaged and dreaming of the life you're going to spend with your love, know that I am right there with you.